Hello Ruthie: I have been a musician for over 50 years..I had the voice, the talent and the ability to write, play and record multiple songs and instruments. If you are truly sincere about becoming a singer..do not let anyone stop or get in the way of your dreams. Go to school and get a good education in something that can support you and your lifestyle..then work on your music career in your spare time. Take voice lessons, learn to read music, don't smoke, drink or do drugs (these will all affect your voice and your ability to breathe) Keep yourself in physically fit condition because this type of career is very physically demanding. Hope this helps. God Bless